The Perfect Christmas Gift for Your Friends & Family?

The Perfect Christmas Gift for Your Friends & Family

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What is the perfect Christmas gift for your friends and family?

Hi, I’m Brian Pombo welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live. Coming to you live everyday.

Today from Grants Pass, Oregon here at the head quarters. You heard the ding, that means I forgot to turn my phone off.

Forgot to silence it before I came on the air. Rather forgetful.

If you haven’t noticed yet, yesterday I forgot to plug my microphone all the way in so you couldn’t hear me all that well.

Hopefully you got to hear the message though. Today’s message has to do with a Christmas gift for you and your loved ones. And it’s not something that you can easily wrap up in most cases.

It’s not something that is all that easily delivered or even necessarily even wanted by the other party. That’s right. It’s a trick question in a sense because it’s one of those things that it really is the gift that keeps on giving and we’ll talk a little bit about that.

It’s business ownership. It’s entrepreneurship, it’s doing your own thing and having something that you could work on, either part time or full time, but being able to put as much time as you want into it and being able to have it be yours, that you own it, that you run it and that it means something. It’s deeper.

There’s a lot of opportunities out there that we’re all familiar with and many of us came into owning our own business through different opportunities. Maybe direct sales or network marketing or any of the other kind of little niche projects out there that people get involved in.

And they may not even make money at them. Their introduction, a lot of people call it the introductory drug into the world of entrepreneurship. But it’s somewhere to start.

It’s something you can start with, you can take your time with and start figuring out what business ownership is all about. And if you’re a business owner, let me ask you something.

What would have happened if you did not ever have a chance to own your own business now?

You could ask any business owner and they all have a different back story. Some of them have always had their own business since they were a little kid.

Some of them have worked almost their entire lives as employees and just recently started their own business and are still trying to find their way around it. Other people, somewhere in between. They stumbled into owning a business.

It wasn’t even something that they meant to do. They ended up buying it from or ended up inheriting it or something of that sort. But it’s life changing, owning a business.

It changes your perspective on things. It changes everything.

On my podcast, The Off The Grid Biz Podcast, which you could find it OffTheGridBiz.com we interview different business owners.

Well, most of them are business owners, some of them, they’re doing something in the self-reliance field that relates back to business.

But many of them are business owners and they have a completely different perspective. But one thing, unless they’re on their way out, most of them are very thankful for the ability to have owned a business and being able to see things from that perspective and be able to have that type of responsibility.

Either thrust upon them or that they came across it or some of them feel like they couldn’t ever be employed again. And if you’re anything like me, it was life changing.

Owning your own business is a life changing event and it’s one of those things where it’s very difficult to ever imagine yourself going back into full employment in the same way that you may have been at one time.

We could talk about all the different things, all the different advantages to owning your own business, but I think everyone should own their own business at some point.

I don’t think everyone’s an entrepreneur.

I don’t think everyone’s a serial business owner or someone that’s going to take it extremely seriously or necessarily even make a living at it.

But I think everyone should have a chance to own a business at some point and be able to experience that.

I think it builds empathy for others and it allows you to really see how difficult it is to be able to do it and how there is a certain amount of luck you did with it.

But it does take a lot of thought, a lot of hard work, and a lot of persistence, grit, and if you’re a business owner, you should feel proud about that.

But also see what you can do about introducing your friends and family into the same world. They’re not all gonna be great at it.

If they’re not all gonna want to do it here, but how would you go about doing that?

How do you introduce it to someone?

Here’s how I do it. I talk to people and I find out what they’re into and I find out what’s going on. It’s a perfect time of year for those types of conversations.

How have you been doing?

How’s it going?

What are you doing with your time?

How are you like that job?

You enjoy it. You like doing that, you see yourself doing that long-term, where do you see yourself in the long run if you’re not going to be there?

Where do you see yourself, if you could be doing anything right now, what would you be doing?

And if the conversation ever comes back to me, I said, you know, I help help people to start their own businesses and I help co successful businesses.

If you were to own any type of business, what would it be?

What would you do?

Could you ever see your cell phone in a business?

I throw these stuff out there and I kind of have a back and forth with people because I like to see their perspective. And I really like to see if every once awhile someone has a desire and they have a point in their life where they’re just looking for something different.

I do my best to encourage them at whatever they’re looking at doing. Encourage them if they want to. Have a site up on Etsy and sell their homemade crafts. I encourage them.

You should too, just do your best to do that. Because I think the more people that have that independent spirit, the more people become more self reliant, which is what I really love.

I love seeing people to become more self-reliant because the more self-reliant they are, the more we can help people who can’t be or won’t be, in some cases.

It ties into a lot of my business model because a lot of the people I ended up helping business owners that are already relatively successful.

The ones that I can help out the most, I’ve found a really cool area that I work in. The Self-reliance field meaning, businesses that help people to become more self reliant in some way or fashion.

Maybe they teach people how to, how to do a skill or they teach something, a way of building a business, or they teach you how to be self reliant, how to basically survive in a bad situation.

All of these different things or within the self-reliance field. It’s so if you’re a business owner or an executive and the self-reliance field and you’d love to have a conversation.

Well because I know I’d like to have a conversation with you then I love to talk with you and find out more about you. Go to DreamBizChat.com.

I used to pull this thing out every day, but every once awhile while I was moving it would get lost in the shuffle while I found it again.

DreamBizChat.com my little cue card.

Go there and watch the video.

You can also find the link in the description. You can click right on it. Take you right over to it. I’d love to find out what you think.

Whether you’re interested in talking to me or not, definitely drop me a line because it takes you straight to BrianJPombo.com but a very specific page.

That DreamBizChat.com takes you to something we call the Dream Business Transformation.

So go check that out. I mean, let’s say you don’t own a business, but you’re looking to own a business.

Ggo to, BrianJPombo.com on the front page, there’s three little boxes up there, at least currently there’s three little boxes.

By the time you see this video, there may be more, but, you’ll see this one that says, I want to start my business. Click on that, fill it out, and I will get back to you.

Because I do help people to start their own businesses.

Totally different format from what I use to help people that already have a business to move forward with. But it’s definitely something that I encourage everybody to do and I encourage you to encourage others to do it too.

So hopefully that’s helpful. That’s my Christmas message.

We’ve got some more Christmas messages coming up. We do this everyday.

So come on back tomorrow.

You can also check out our old videos and audios over on BrianJPombo.com so you have a great night. In the meantime, get out there and let the magic happen.

Fault vs. Responsibility

Fault vs Responsibility

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What in life is your fault and what is your responsibility?

What’s the difference?

We’re going to talk about that today. Welcome back I’m Brian Pombo. Welcome back to the Orange Office and Grants Pass, Oregon.

Today we are going to discuss fault versus responsibility.

The only other person I’ve ever heard discuss it in these terms is a great philosopher. Perhaps you’ve heard of him. Will Smith otherwise known as the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. He discussed it on one of his Facebook posts or something of that sort and he’s the only other person I’ve ever heard use it in these terms.

Fault versus responsibility.

I think a lot of people get messed up because they get caught up with the meaning behind these two words.

So I’m going to define them as best as possible in terms of how we use a modern day. But first the real question is whether you’re ready to take responsibility for your business growth or not?

See the little tie in there?

Go to DreamBizChat.com especially if you are a business owner or an executive in the self-reliance field, you’re going to want to go to DreamBizChat.com and watch a video. Fill out the application and you can get a free business chat with me to help you come up with the proper game plan to build your dream business in the next six months or less.

Back to the issue, fault versus responsibility. Fault,I think we get confused between these two ideas way too often. Fault really comes down to blame and this blame game that we get caught up in.

We want to say, well wasn’t my fault! It was your fault! And we get all caught up with fault and fault doesn’t really matter that much. It matters only in origin.

In other words, where did the problem start?

And if you’re following along with our deep thoughts from the last couple of days, I honestly believe that most of the problems that we have didn’t it start with us. The way you think is passed down from the generations, from your parents or lack of parents.

You learned via society, via your education, via the people you consider mentors. You learned a thought pattern, whether you knew you were learning it or not. You learned a way of thinking, a way of reacting with your emotions, and it’s all based on the people and things that you were around all your life.

Which you didn’t have much of a choice in. It isn’t that much your fault that you are the way you are, that you think the way you think. Many of the problems, if not most of the problems, if not all the problems you have aren’t your fault.

Now, before you get too caught up with that concept, I want to bring in the other end of it.

It is your responsibility. It’s your responsibility to deal with everything that’s been hoisted on you. Now you could say, “well that’s not fair,” and that’s all fine and good.

We can talk about fairness another time. But the fact of the matter is if it isn’t someone else’s responsibility, it is yours. Legally it’s your responsibility. Morally it’s your responsibility.

There’s something about self-reliance that brings everything back to you being the one responsible, regardless of what happened to you, regardless of all the abuses you’ve gone through, the horrors that you’ve seen in life, everything that’s happened to you is your responsibility now to deal with it.

It’s your responsibility to deal with this mess that’s been handed off to you. That’s life. It really is.

It’s a mess for most of us, okay. Even in the best case scenario, best case situations, best parents, best town that you grew up in, everything was great. You’re still dealing with the mess that is the imperfect life, the imperfect world that we live in.

So where do you go from here?

Realizing that it’s not your fault. You can quit playing the blame game and quit saying, well, it was my parents fault. Well, it wasn’t their fault either because it was their parents’ fault and their parents fault in their parents.

We can play the blame game over and over and over again talking about whose fault it is. In reality, it’s our responsibility to deal with whatever we’ve got on top of us, and in the same sense, it’s the other person’s responsibility to take care of their thing.

Now, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try and help people. But the best way of helping people, I honestly believe because I’ve seen it over and over again, the best ways to teach a man to fish versus fish for them.

You fish for them to keep them surviving if necessary, to keep them from starving, but in the long run, you’ve got to teach them how to fish themselves. The more we can teach people how to become self-reliant, how to depend more on themselves, the better people they’ll become and the more they’ll be able to help other people to be that way also.

In the long run even though we’re responsible for ourself. We can provide abundance to the rest of everybody else, the extras that we ended up getting, because you never just have just enough for yourself.

The better and better you get at something, the more you end up with abundance.

The more you end up with more than enough than you’ll ever need, and you’re always able to give that off to somebody else. And that’s a great thing. But it’s important that you’re responsible for yourself.

You’re responsible, your family, for your children, grandchildren, what have you. Take that responsibility. Don’t worry about the fault. Quit playing the blame game. Take the responsibility. Realize that it may not be your fault.

Here’s another scenario.

Somebody comes, takes their car, crashes in into the side of your house. Okay, whose fault was it? What was the person that crashed into the side of your house? Now they could say, “well, I was trying to avoid this situation over here, so it’s their fault.” And the fault, the blame game can go on and on and on and on right?

But really it wasn’t your fault that they crashed into the side of your house, but whose responsibility is it to fix it? Well that person, even if they were drunk or whatever else, they may have to pay some form of restitution, but they’re not going to sit there and fix your house.

The police aren’t going to come out and fix your house. It’s your responsibility to fix your house. It wasn’t your fault at all, had nothing to do with you, but you’re the one left having to fix the house.

Everything in life is constantly happening to us, but it’s our responsibility to take care of it from there.

If you agree with me, go over to BrianJPombo.com check out some of my other videos there.

You go into the media section and check that out and if you are a business owner or an executive in the self-reliance field, like I said, DreamBizChat.com is where you want to go because I love to talk with you. I’m not looking to sell you anything straight off the bat, I’d like to find out more about you and your business and what you’re looking to achieve.

If there’s a way we can work together in the long run, that’d be great. But really I’d like to find out more about you and your business. So go fill out the application and we’ll see if we can get together.

Tomorrow we are going to be looking into some tactics, some specific tactics used on YouTube and I’m going to show you a friend of mine, how I was able to take some of the things that he has done and been successful with on Youtube and applied it back into my business.

I’ll show you how you can apply it to yours.

We’ll see it tomorrow.

Top 11 Signs of A Winner: #10 Willing to Take Responsibility

Top 11 Signs of A Winner: #10 Willing to Take Responsibility

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To be a winner in Brian’s book, you have to be willing to take responsibility.

  • Being the leader of the business means you have the final say, but it also means you know how and when to involve others
  • Having solid relationships with the people you do business with
  • Are you willing to let the buck stop with you

Past Vids On This Topic

1 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-1-willing-to-price-appropriately/
2 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-2-willing-to-stand-out/
3 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-number-3-willing-to-interact-with-customer-base/
4 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-4-willing-to-invest-in-media/
5 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-5-willing-to-commit-to-a-long-term-strategy/
6 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-6-willing-to-go-beyond-chasing-customers/
7 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-7-find-the-who-not-learn-every-how/
8 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-8-under-promise-and-over-deliver/
9 – https://brianjpombo.com/top-11-signs-of-a-winner-9-willing-to-define-stick-to-your-principles/